Having Sex in Public: The Advantages and Disadvantages

Having Sex in Public: The Advantages and Disadvantages

There are very few things that make you feel more empowered than being able to openly enjoy your sexual freedom any time and any place you choose! However, you do have to be a little conscious of the “where” because getting caught in the act can land you in a sticky situation. There is no law that states that public sex is a crime but there are quite a few charges that will be handed down to you IF you were to get caught! Here’s a list of a few of the advantages and disadvantages and you can decide if it’s for you.

Advantages
*Getting out of the house and breaking up the routine is always a great idea. A new place awakens senses that you didn’t realize turned you on!

*You will certainly burn more calories trying to not get caught and “get off” at the same d***m time! You’ll find your inner acrobat creeping up on you and doing things that you don’t oftentimes get to do inside of the bedroom.

* Creating lasting memories with your partner is always going to be high on the list of advantages. It’s great that you both can come together and share your sexual experiences with each other but it’s even better to expand them by trying something new and daring. This leads me to the disadvantages….

Disadvantages
*Getting caught having sex can lead to a possible prison sentencing and/or fines up to $1000. The specific charges vary by state but indecent exposure and lewd behavior are the two more common crimes that are violation.

* Germs (and other creepy crawlers) are all around you! Certainly this is the last thing on your mind when you’re trying to get busy but when you have sex in public you should look around to be sure you’re not leaning against a poison ivy tree or an ant bed! These things could happen! Also, a little known fact; Having sex in a pool or lake can increase your chances of getting a UTI (urinary tract infection), STDs and the chlorine from the pool makes condoms less effective.

* Long lasting embarrassment can also be a disadvantage if your getaway plan doesn’t go quite as planned. Imagine the heartbreak that Grandma will have to suffer after catching her favorite granddaughter doing some of the ungodly things that her boyfriend can’t live without! I’m sure there are a million different great stories of public sex but it only takes ONE bad denominator to ruin things!

The moral of the story is be sure that you are fully aware of the possible consequences BEFORE you engage in any acts. Even as adults we can’t help the adrenaline that pumps within us at the thought of doing something we shouldn’t be doing but that’s the same thing that got us in trouble as kids! There are a lot of alternatives to public sex such as sex in the shower instead of the pool (add LED showerhead and music, thank me later) and if you think you’re turned on by someone watching you, add mirrors! Neyo made a whole song about how sexy it is watching your partner in the mirror while making love. Another suggestion would be to open up the doors and windows in your home and do it RIGHT THERE in the open! The possibilities are endless but no matter what you do, be safe and be prepared for anything!